Baylor's Pediatric AIDS Center in Gaborone

Our project team attends Teen Club every last Saturday of the month as volunteers to facilitate with activities for the 100+ 13-18 year old kids there who are also patients at Baylor. Teen Club is a place where they can receive psycho-social support. Many of them consider it a "home away from home" where they can be free to talk about what it is like living with HIV/AIDS.

This month's theme was Friendship and Peer Pressure. The adult volunteers and teens split into groups, had discussions about friendship and what one values in a friend, and then came up with skits to act out peer pressure situations. Each group acted out a skit. The kids were hilarious. One group pretended to be in the club, dancing and drinking, getting all crazy, and pressuring everyone to drink. Another skit involved a woman with HIV declining the pressure of her boyfriend to have intercourse. He didn't think people would see them as adults if they didn't have a child, but she didn't want to pass on HIV to her baby. The skits were well fit for situations these kids actually encounter here in Botswana, they did a great job.

Dr Paul has been working at Baylor's Pediatric AIDS Center in Gaborone for years now and said his goodbyes to the kids at Teen Club this past Saturday. He said a few words about how much he has seen Teen Club grow over the years, and that it is the teens' involvement and commitment that really makes it run. He got a little choked up, understandably. Stux, a 15 year old who is one of the Teen Leaders addressed Dr Paul, giving him thanks for his support. Stux said when he was a little boy Dr Paul would always make him take his medicine. Oftentimes he didn't want to and he'd get upset, but Dr Paul would always make him take it. He told him, "I'm a big boy now because of you. I've grown strong and big because of you." It was a heart warming to see a young man thanking the doctor who helped him take his ARVs to be where he is now. It was a touching moment.

Our Zimbabwean Neighbor

I recently read a book by journalist Heidi Holland, Dinner with Mugabe. Holland presents an intelligent, in-depth look at Mugabe through interviews with people he was in close contact. What happened to this man, everyone is wondering. He started off as a hero, fighting the colonial government that ruled what was then Rhodesia. He instilled programs that supported health and education. Today the country has fallen to pieces under his watch. Basically, Holland sees Mugabe as an emotionally detached man who never wanted to go into politics in the first place. She suggests he was looked up to as a leader and put in place because of his achievement of earning seven university degrees after being born into poverty. Interviews with people who knew him earlier in his life show that he was a shy loner as a child who grew into a warm and courteous adult. Mugabe is an intelligent man, Holland explains, yet his negligence in properly dealing with the painful experiences of not having a present father, the death of his brother when he was younger, being imprisoned for 11 years and not being allowed to attend the funeral of his only son, caused him to disconnect himself emotionally. This internal separation led to several characteristics in him such as being intolerable of others' opinions, which is evident in his actions today when people are killed if they disagree with him. In this book, Holland presents an abundant amount of information about southern African politics as well as psychological insight into human nature.

Being that Zimbabwe is a neighbor of Botswana, there are people who come here to escape the current conditions. It's bad over there. I'm sure you've seen it in the news. Some people have papers and come legally to Botswana, looking for work. They also go to South Africa, where more job opportunities exist, "but they end up selling tomatoes on the side of the road," a taxi driver told me in Johannesburg. In Cape Town, I met a young woman about my age who worked at the internet cafe and had recently come from Zimbabwe. In my mind I thought how Cape Town has everything- the ocean, mountains, and an arts & culture vibe. As we were chatting I asked her how she liked Cape Town. She said she loved it, "it has everything- food, water, electricity." That gave me goosebumps and put my perspective in check. It is really unfortunate and horrific what has happened in Zimbabwe. It's a delicate situation and Holland's book gives insight into what might "have happened" to Mugabe over the years.

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